What do you do when the chapter ends? Do you close the book and never read it again?
I told you she doesn't like being dumped. Unless she is referring to her previous relationship which ended sometime back. Very unlikely. Maybe she is displacing her feelings.
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I have to march on. There's nothing for me here. I had committed the cardinal sin.
Unless I play a different game. A displacement game too.
For one thing I know she is stimulus-response. So chances are she is responding to my Tweet:
Honey,
I can't go on living like this.
Hence I'm ending my relationship with you.
I hope you have a happy life.
Maybe when I'm gone then you will realize that I truly love you.
Goodbye darling...
If I follow this model, I am right on track:
Hey Els,
I hope you had simmered down.
I'd thought about what I said and boy do I feel bad.
I missed you so much honey.
Let's start on a clean slate. I'll be nice from here on, I promise.
Maybe it's time to build back her confidence:
Honey,
You are beautiful. Don't let anybody tell you otherwise. Especially a Jackass like me. I was a rough guy on the edges. What I was trying to do was to bring in some humor which was done in a bad taste. Please forgive me.
Still, Brenner advises that it's crucial to take a step back before hitting send. When it comes to your ex, lingering feelings may remain, so be aware of what those feelings mean for you before you contact them, he says. "Generally, you should wait until the acute reactions settle down," Brenner advises
I should wait until end of the month before deciding on the next course of action.
In the end I should decide on [t]hat (what) feels good to me and what feels good to others.
Seriously Sarah, I don't like lingering on bad feelings. With Els, she likes to harp on negative emotions. I should stay clear from her. She can drag me down. I should move on.
Definitely I have to move on. This is the best time to do that. There's nothing for me to look forward to here.
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