Sunday, 5 April 2020

5/4/20 ***I am having cognitive dissonance right now

I had decided to dump Els on 31/3/20.  I should stick to that plan.  It was a good decision.  Same goes with not tweeting TraXX.

I just want to be belonged.  However if I looked at it at the wrong places, I'll get hurt.

I just let her pass.  No point really.  I had crossed the line.

What do you think Sarah? To be or not to be?  Actually I feel *ba[ck] (bad) because now I no longer have a person I can menyakat.  I am really bad at saying goodbye.

* What this mean Sarah?  I should ignore her?

The truth is Els is water under the bridge.  I'll stick to my road map and follow where the argument leads.  I'll send the two letters.

I feel bad because I cannot get it the way I want it.  It's not because I have feelings for her.  She is just a pet.  More of a plaything than anything else.  I like her because she was fun to be with.  However when she is mad, she is a pain in the neck.

This is damn you if you do and damn you if you don't situation.  I just try to wing it through.  In the end, I might end up with nothing.

-------------------

Honestly, like everybody else, I want to be accepted.  That is my issue.  It's not that I am so in love with Els.  I think as a person, she is a nuisance.  Personally I think she is a lousy lay.  So why I still seek her attention?  That's because I enjoy menyakat (intimidate) her. 

In a sense I am just a bully.  Can you accept the explanation Sarah? 

It is not my intention to bully her.  Bullying is just a tool.  So now instead of bullying, I'll be nice instead.

I think in the end there is nothing.

I want to send the letters because I still want to salvage the situation.  However if I look at the situation, I say it is beyond redemption.  I'll try one last time.  Then I keep it an open ended closure.

As it is, there is nothing between me and her.

---------------------

No comments:

Post a Comment