Thursday, 9 April 2020

10/4/20 ***Making lemonade out of lemons

Right...  I am who I am warts and all.  Unless you expect me to behave differently this is who I am projecting to myself.

What it means *i[t] (is) I am not going to pretend to be a different person to anybody.

* You heard of the term honestly is the best policy right?  Well, here I am being honest to myself.

You may not like what you see but as far as I'm concerned, I have to be true to me.

I did that to my mom.  If she cannot accept that then she is not worthy to be my mom.  She can accept my brother being a drug addict and yet she cannot accept me being an apostate.

She is not worthy to be my mother in my opinion.  As least my grandma can accept that I don't fast during the Ramadan.

She even cooked for me.  Now, that is love.

With my mother, I never experienced being loved.  I know I should get over it.  Well my way of dealing with it is discarding my parents.

Last year when I came back to my hometown, she talked about staying in a nursing home.  Who does she expect to pay for it?

I certainly not going to fork up the bill.

Brb...  Lunch.

This is my life Sarah.  I'm sharing with you all these so that you get a glimpse of what my life is all about.

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Basically I was a fuck up my entire life.  So I need to address that issue head on.

For a start I will correct all the wrongs I made throughout my life.  By now I got to start living a normal life.  No more darkside like the 3Cs.

I had managed to reset to zero.  Now to move north.  That proves to be very challenging.

Well, let's start with NO MORE ELS.  Otherwise I am going on a downward spiral.  All it takes for me to excel is to have the right diet and exercise.  A very simple solution.

Baby, it may not be much to you but since I quit the 3Cs, I had achieved a great feat in my life.  I am so proud of it.

What else do you expect from a totally messed up person?  I come a long way from *[] (where) I was 20 years ago.

* Thank you for the confidence Sarah.

I had a turbulent life.  I think the main reason was because I failed calculus.  Seriously honey.  Because of calculus my life took a different turn.  Otherwise I could have been a petroleum engineer.  But then that's life.

Any job as an engineer is better than being a salesman.  What a twist of fate.

Well I was a good consultant and a trainer.  The only thing is I hate dealing with people.

I am a loner.  A job which suits me is a librarian.  I love that.  I was the Head Librarian when I was in my final year in high school.

What can I say Sarah, for a person with a dark history, I can consider myself a success.  My real asset is my family.  By that I also include you in.  Bless my lucky star Sarah, I am married to two very committed women.

You changed my life for the better.  Life without you will be very lonely indeed.  I love you so much baby.

This is as close to a perfect life to me honey.

If only I can move towards my worthy ideal.  That will be great.

No worry, consider this MCO a break from the routine.  If it took me 7 years to finally quit cigarette, I can certainly cut some slacks during this MCO.

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Sarah my darling, you know that I love you very much don't you?  I know I said that every night.  However words are not enough to describe my feeling towards you. I wish I can be with you and hold you close.  It's because of you I experience true love.  Something I had not experience my entire life.

I have nothing to offer except what you see here; my heart and my sincerity.

You bring me such a joy.  Now, I don't know how often you read what I wrote but as far as I'm concerned, you are always there for me

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